Cry it out?

The last couple weeks we have tried a new tactic when it comes to sleep time for Hudson. We used to go pick him up every time he cried, try to rock him back to sleep, only to put him back down in the crib and watch him immediately wake up and start screaming. So we would repeat this process - along with trying a few other things like seeing if he'd sleep in our bed with us - only to wind up exhausted. We knew he wasn't old enough to self sooth in the beginning, but by 8 months he should be learning, right?


So the last two weeks have involved the "cry it out"method. We feed him, rock him, rub his back, etc., then put him down. This happens for both bed time and nap times. At first he would cry for about 20-30 minutes, standing, yelling, doing what he thought would bring us back into the room to pick him up (because normally, it would). But our patience was indeed rewarded, as he would eventually topple over like a rag doll (really) and fall asleep. It's hilarious to watch on the video monitor! Then the crying time began to shorten, and it was often 10 minutes or less before he would allow himself to relax enough to sleep. Andy and I were thrilled. We also stopped going in to pick him up if he wakes in the middle of the night, and wouldn't you know it? He puts himself back to sleep! Yes I know - I'm sure this is normal. But to us it has been a small miracle.


Well, the last few days, Hudson - my darling Hudson - has decided he really needs to start crying and SCREAMING for at least 20 minutes, before he'll let himself go to sleep. Not sure what happened, but this is just not working. It's not working at home, and it's definitely not working at daycare. They can't put him down to cry it out there - so what happens? Stubborn Hudson doesn't nap. Great. By the time I go to visit him at lunch, he is a crabby mess. And if they can't get him to sleep in the afternoon? God help us all. SO, here we are today.


Precious little Hudson will be sleeping soundly in your arms...until you go to put him down. It's like there's a scream/cry button you accidentally press in the process of putting him down. So far I've been unable to determine where this secret button is.


Perhaps someday, my little Angel Hudson will give up the fight, leave the drama behind, and sleep without tears. Someday.

beautiful day!

Today it's a beautiful day out! We've gone for a couple walks, put some new flowers in the pots on the patio, tried some watermelon for the first time this season (and first time ever for Hudson - he likes it!) and sat out with Hudson to enjoy some of the 80 degree warmth - my kind of day! :)

Last night Andy surprised me with an early Mother's day gift - a beach cruiser! I LOVE it. Best first Mother's day I could have asked for! Hudson is back to his normal self, smiling, laughing and into everything! He is such a great kid, it's so fun to be with him - watching him discover and grow right before my eyes. We definitely love him more every day.

Can't believe he'll be NINE months next week!! Yikes.

phone camera

 These pictures were taken with my camera phone - not bad!

Copy Cat

I think i may have written before about how Hudson has been copying the other kids at daycare - they cry, he watches them, waits for them to stop, then squeals at the same pitch they did - almost as if he's making fun of them. It's hilarious! He has also recently learned to give hi five's, clap, and as of today, he's waving. YES - he was sitting by the front door, looking out the glass/screen door, when he looked back at me with that sweet face of his (dead pan) and waved. Of course we've been trying to get him to wave for a week or so, but he hasn't done it until tonight! It was a finger wave, really, the kind where you just bend those four fingers, leaving the rest of your hand still. We will definitely be trying to get it on video! oh man, this kid is smart AND cute. Lady killer for sure.

Swing time

Today we went for a walk, and stopped at the park across the street on our way back to swing! Hudson LOVED it. It is such a beautiful day here today in Denver - 72 and sunny with a light breeze. The kind of day I long for all winter - so we're taking advantage!! We'll probably go for a second walk later this afternoon, or after Andy gets home - definitely one of our favorite things to do on warm evenings here!

A boys best friend

Lego will always be Hudson's first dog, and what a great first dog she is! She is so patient, loving, and calm with him (other than when she wants to play REAL bad). Hudson loves being around her, watching her, laughing at her. I'm sure as soon as he can figure out how to feed her, he'll be doing that as well - and she will be in doggie heaven. This picture kind of captures those little moments they already share, and moments I know Hudson will look back on with great fondness (once he starts remembering his childhood, of course). :)

Easter egg hunt

Every year there is an easter egg hunt across the street from our place at the park. This year we were excited to bring Hudson out into the mix with all the other kids. Yea, should have thought that one through a little more. Of course he can't walk, and all the other kids can. SO, we ended up finding ONE egg, hovering over it while we put Hudson down (he was still under the weather so just sat there which was kind of nice) and took pictures of him looking adorable with his lone Easter egg. But you can see in these pictures, he did look adorable!! :) Unfortunately because he was sick, we didn't even think about taking a family photo. Maybe next year!

Couch walking

EVEN with an ear infection/stomach bug/cold/teething, Hudson has begun walking his way around the couch. 8 1/2 months. Anyone want to place bets on when this kid will be walking on his own?

Hello, Easter Bunny

Hudson met the Easter bunny today...as interesting looking as this Easter Bunny was...looks like Hudson thought he was different looking as well...

A good day after a VERY long week...

This last week was probably one of the roughest we've had so far as parents. Hudson experienced the following:
1. Double ear infection
2. Stomach bug, causing him to vomit for over 12 hours
3. A cold (runny nose, cough)
4. Top teeth coming in
5. The worst diaper rash I've seen yet

YES. That all happened this week. So you can imagine, we got very little sleep. Because of that, we missed work, snapped at each other unnecessarily, and got sick ourselves. Oh, and it has been a VERY busy week at work for me - which doesn't work well with everything else going on. It was also the hardest week I think for us not having family close by to help out. I now realize why they say it can depressing and lonely when your kids are sick - it's true.

BUT!!! Yes!! We are on day 5 of medication, and doing MUCH better! We went to our first swim lesson today AND our first Easter egg hunt (not much of a hunt, but you know what i mean!)!! So things are finally looking up!

cutie pie

Well, its been a couple weeks, so sounds like its time for another cold. Great. Once again, poor baby, and poor us. :) Good thing is, he's still smiling some of the time!! He's a trooper. Now i'm off to take a nap. 

copy cat

Hudson has begun copying certain things. He will copy one of his friends at daycare if they scream or cry - he waits until they are quiet, then makes the noise they just made. It is hilarious. He also watches one little boy, Talal, walk around on one of the toys they have there, and now he is starting to do that himself. Tonight, he copied Andy as he made a pllll noise with his mouth. He's done this kind of thing before a little, but never cause on video! He also copied me three times in a row when i said DADA today...WOW! Not sure if i'm ready to say that is his first word...

EIGHT MONTHS?!?!

I have an 8 month old son. Really? Yes. He's 8 months old. WOW. So much has happened the last month, it's amazing how much this little baby has grown into a little boy. And he's only 8 months. ONLY. Funny how one minute he seem so grown up, but the next he is just my precious little baby boy.

From 7-8 months, the following changes have taken place:

Hudson got his first cold, that turned into his first ear infection. Not fun. 

He figured out how to pull himself into the standing position; and now he does it ALL THE TIME. 

He got his first case of the hives - haven't figured out what caused them yet, but they stayed for just a few days. 

Hudson climbed the stairs. Yes. Hudson climbed the stairs. By himself. See video in previous post. 

He is a busy little guy, crawling everywhere, feeding himself, pulling his toys out of his toy box, playing with the remote, cell phone, and any other electronic device he can stick in his mouth. 

We think he is teething, as he has been waking up at least once a night for the last week - with a shreaking whale. 

He LOVES to make a fishy face - seen above. And he is playing with his voice, making all sorts of interesting noises. One of which is screaming. We hope that phase doesn't last. 

Hudson has recently become much more of a mama's boy. Only mom can put him back to sleep when he wakes up at night. Joy for mama. Hm. Hopefully he starts sleeping through the night again, for my sake. 

We also got a visit from Grandma Rosdil this month! We went to the zoo, went for walks, and just had fun together. It was beautiful weather, and lots of fun!

Last night we got a sitter for the first time, and had gotten tickets to the Arcade Fire concert. We were both excited to see the band, and have a night out of the house. Once we arrived at the concert venue, about 25 minutes away from home, i get a call from the sitter. Hudson is screaming in the background. He has woken up, and she can't get him to calm down. We ask her to try soothing him for a few minutes, then check back. She calls 7 minutes later, and he is still screaming. Loud. We wait another 10 minutes to see if he will calm down (the band is getting ready to go on), and when I call to see if he's calming down, I can't hear her talking over his screams. So, we do what any good parent would do. We go home. Though disappointed, I really couldn't wait to get home to comfort my baby boy. And of course, it wasn't hard once he was in my arms. Within seconds he was smiling, putting his head on my shoulder, and getting ready to fall asleep. We said thank you to our awesome sitter (who will hopefully sit for us again in the future!), and put our little boy to bed. All by 9:45pm. I'm sure the concert was in full swing by then, but we'll have to wait until next time to hear them live.

just a few short months ago...

Just looking back at pictures of Hudson from day one, and found this one picture of him with Great Grandpa and Grandma. I love it, because you can almost hear grandpa talking to Hudson - and Hudson talking back. That night, Christmas Eve, was one of the best Christmas memories I think I will ever have. Hudson was so wound up from all the energy and people - meeting everyone for the first time, having four generations together for the first time. And we all had such a fun time with him. I don't know if we'll ever have another Christmas, quite like that one.

doing stairs

Hudson's first NUDE photo shoot (PG-13)

No need to shield your eyes...unless you want to miss out on seeing some cute baby booty. 

family photo

our fun (warm) day at the zoo!

visit with grandma Rosdil

 Hudson had fun with Grandma Rosdil this weekend! and he wore his special shirt from Ireland just for her! (she brought it back from her trip last summer!)

An examination of Lego's bed

Hudson decided to check out Lego's bed...and the new carpet we got put down in our bedroom! He climbed the stairs last week to check the carpet out there...i think he approves. :)

a trip to the zoo

Last time we went to the zoo was Halloween, Hudson was less than three months old, dressed like a pumpkin, and slept through the whole thing. This time was a little better - he was awake, in his big boy stroller, and was equally as cute as he was at Halloween! And this time Grandma was here to go with us!!

we had to stop in to get a sun hat because it was 81 degrees out! Of course the next day it is snowing...and if someone says "that's spring in Colorado" one more time...I swear...